爱一个人很辛苦所以我下定决心不再爱一个人了，还是决定了偷偷地爱着她。
Let me translate this sentence to you, it means
Loving someone is such a great torture, therefore I decided not to love someone anymore, but I also decided to love her anonymously.
There's paradox in this sentence. What I mean is, how do you stop loving someone if you love her secretly?
So, I expressed my doubt in my comment toward the statement.
However, there is a girl, who totally disagree with my thought and she commented on this feed obviously against me.
Me
The Short-tempered Girl
lema, 不爱一个人, 跟偷偷爱着她, 简直自相矛盾, LOL
(lema, don't love someone no more, but love her secretly, it's paradox, LOL)
在爱的世界里, 不就是互相矛盾得吗?
(Isn't the World of Love is fulled with ambiguity and paradox?)
爱怎么会矛盾, 不爱怎么会恨? 只是人心在作祟, 把事情搞得复杂了.
(Love is never paradox, if you never love, why would you hate? It's the flaw man who makes thing complicated.)
每个人都只会说要简单一点, 但是说这种话的人~ 一点都不简单, 而且也很复杂! 人是最复杂的动物!!
(Everyone says that they want to keep thing simple, but those who say this, are not simple at all but very complicated. Human is the most complex creature in the world!!)
觉得别人很复杂的人, 肯定要比会说要简单一点的人, 来得更复杂一点, 自己不复杂, 怎么会觉得别人复杂? 起码说要简单的人会简简单单的把自己想要的东西表达出来. 哈哈
(Who always think other people are complicated, is actually more complicated than those who want themselves to be simple. If oneself is not complicated, how does one feel others' complexity? At least those who want simplicity would say it out simply loud and clear.)
我从不否认我是复杂的, 因为我是人!! 而那些自认很简单的人, 不见得是简单~
(I never deny that I'm very complicated, because I'm a human!! Those who think they are simple, they ain't no simple at all~)
Debate between us ended when the short-tempered girl brought in personal element and turned it into a nasty game. Anyway, I hope the girl could see the world simpler, because complexity blinds u from seeing the core of life.
